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Sometimes May Edochie seems ambivalent about what she is fighting for. Is she fighting for Judy Austin to leave her husband for her or she wants to divorce Yul Edochie? The online warriors of May make the matter even more ambivalent. Nigerian tradition recognizes polygamy. Did they agree during prenuptial that another woman would not join as additional wife?
On the other hand, what made Yul to leave May to marry Judy after the former had given him grown up children? Is this not akin to shooting oneself on the foot?
There are many who argue that Yul must have endured so much in the hands of Yul. The truth is that if he does not make the alleged maltreated public and Nigerians weigh it to see whether the gravity of what May did is enough to push Yul to marry another woman; if not, social media attacks on him by May sympathizers will not abate.
If the marriage finally breakdown irretrievably, social media warriors will be held responsible. But as long as Nigerian culture recognizes polygamy, May and Judy can be married by one man, Yul.
Last year November, May Edochie was quoted to have said she was not an advocate for divorce.
She said, ““Some men see me like I am misleading their wives. I love family, I love marriage. I know in today’s world, there is this conception about marriage that is totally different.
Ideally, marriage is the basis for family. Without family, there will be no you or me. That’s how it used to be.”
