Women Tell Their Orgasm Experience

 

Women long to enjoy sex but not all of them experience orgasm because their partners do not base their sexual encounter to satisfying them, but concentrate on their own enjoyment.

An orgasm is a peak experience of pleasure during sex, marked by a sudden release of physical tension and involuntary muscle contractions, particularly in the pelvic area. It involves intense sensations throughout the body, though feelings and experiences vary greatly among individuals and between genders. 

Orgasms are a normal part of the sexual response cycle and can be achieved through various types of stimulation, though factors like stress, anxiety, and poor communication can make it more difficult. 

However, there are women who naturally do not experience orgasm, a condition known as primary anorgasmia. This can be due to psychological, relational, and physical factors, including a lack of adequate stimulation, emotional issues, or certain medical conditions and medications.

And naturally, men generally reach orgasm more quickly than women due to physiological differences in their sexual response cycles and reproductive strategies, but this can vary greatly between individuals and can be influenced by psychological and relational factors. While men have a higher baseline level of arousal and a faster route to orgasm, women’s sexual response is more complex and varied, often requiring more time and stimulation to reach orgasm. 

Because of this fact, men have to be intentional and even acquire some skills in sustaining sexual encounter till their partners experience orgasm. With pressure of modern living, stress and all that; men are finding this more challenging. But some men are really good at it.

Quelinsblog.com spoke to some women on their orgasm experience during sex. Some of the things they said include the fact that some women fake orgasm because they protect the ego of their partners. One woman disclosed that she does not experience orgasm while having sex with her husband. She said after having sex with her husband she would lock herself in a room and use her fingers on herself. She said sometimes her husband doesn’t get her wet; so, she has to psyche herself to lubricate, noting that some men don’t really care. While some who do; do not want to engage in disciplined patience required to satisfy their partners.

Another woman who spoke to quelinsblog.com said that it was her that didn’t know about orgasm but any time she was having sex with her husband he would be asking her, “Have you come? Have you come?”

“So, one day I asked him what orgasm meant. He explained it to me and promised that one day he would get me there. He really did get me there and I was so excited. That was when sex began to make meaning to me,” she said.

There was another woman who told quelinsblog.com that she became disinterested in sex after having their children. Even before then, she was not excited about sex. But her husband was always asking for it and it became a source of conflict for them.

“He reported me to our women group in the church who wanted to talk to me about it. I recall that I was usually impatient with him. I will just make him ejaculate so that he will leave me alone. But when some of the women spoke to me and told me to have patience with my husband. I promised them I would. And the next time I allowed my husband have his way. He took time on me and I felt a stronger desire for it and when we did it he held on longer and I was able to experience it. You cannot believe that it was after I finished having my children that I experienced orgasm for the first time!”

Men need to school themselves on the skills of satisfying their partners sexually. Some of the married women cheat because some of them go back to their boyfriends who satisfied them sexually but did not have the money to marry them. As their age was increasing, they decided to get married. Not getting sexual satisfaction made them to go back to their former boyfriends. This has also fuelled men fathering children that are not biologically theirs.