Love Zone: For women: How to give your man the best Blowjob of his life

Blowjobs or BJs, have been in vogue since the Kama Sutra featured them in the 2nd century and they offer a host of benefits.

People have reported that performing oral sex increases satisfaction in a relationship and foster greater intimacy between a couple. And… the advantages far outweigh the disadvantages, if any.

A sex expert once said that blowjobs are the handshake of the sex world. You might be giving mediocre BJs without knowing it.

Or you may be new to blowjobs and prefer to skip all the awkward practice blowies. Whatever the reason, you decided blowjobs are, like the French will say, leçon du jour, (lesson of the day).
Who can blame you for wanting to leave your man panting for more?

Hey babe, look no further. Here’s your ultimate guide to giving him the best blowjob of his life.

1. Get comfortable

Before you blow anything, make sure you’re both comfortable. have this at the back of your mind: it takes the average guy about four minutes to orgasm.

But if you’re doing it right, you’ll be gratifying your partner a bit longer than that. Choose a position where you’re not fidgeting every five seconds.

If you plan on using your hands, you can rest them on his thighs. Opt for a bed if you have delicate knees.

Consider the angle or curve of his penis. If that ‘thing’ is cock-eyed or hangs to the left, then lean your body in that direction. It will make your deep throating experience much easier.

2. Work up to it

Don’t go into the blowjob at sprint speed, aiming to get it over with as quickly as possible. If you do that, you will just kill the mood, and possibly snap his snake in half.
A blowjob should be seductive and exciting.

Foreplay is essential, even for a blowjob. Undress him slowly. Kiss his chest, then work down his body. If you have long hair, let it flow over his naked form while you make your way toward the jewels.

Lick his inner thighs and sensitives areas before heading to the sweet spot.

Get a taste of his penis. Give the brothers down below a courtesy squeeze. Hug the shaft with your mouth and shove that bad boy in as deep as you can; gauge your limits. Get the saliva flowing and start working your magic.

Wrap your lips around that slong like it’s a hot banana. One long stroke, from base to tip. Then find a rhythm. You can use your hand to help work your way into a comfortable cadence.

Then, and only then, should you start testing the waters to see what your partner likes. Tease him. A light stroke of teeth, sexy or no way?

Don’t pull all your tricks from the hat at once. Make him work for it, with moans of pleasure.

3. Show your enthusiasm

There’s nothing sexier than getting a blowjob from someone who’s totally into it. Most men say a lack of enthusiasm on the part of their partners can be so disappointing.

BJs aren’t one of those ‘fake it ’til you make it’ situations. If you aren’t comfortable giving a blowjob, find another activity that both of you enjoy.

But if you are into it, let it show.

Take control; be the one to suggest a blowjob. Men love being surprised by a lick of the lollipop. You can sext him with suggestive texts, images, or videos.

Or wait until he comes home and tear his boxers off.

A hummer is a great way to show your zeal. Moaning lets your partner know you’re into it, and it feels great for him.

If you’re getting wet from sucking him off, show him. Grab a fingertip of your love juice and use it as lube. That will bowl him over.

Keep the enthusiasm rolling by making direct eye contact. It shows him that you’re in the moment with him.
You can give him a flirtatious smile or rub his penis on your nipple. While he’s out of your mouth, let him know how hot he makes you, or how much you love his johnson.

4. Tease him

Teasing your partner into a mind-blowing orgasm is a fine art, one you can master by learning the practising of edging.

The idea is to bring your partner to the cusp of orgasm, then switch things up so he doesn’t blow his load just yet.
The trick is to bring him close to the edge again, switch it up, rinse and repeat. The more you bring him to the peak of orgasm, the more intense that orgasm will be when he finally has it.

The act of teasing itself can be a powerful aphrodisiac for many men.

Edging requires keen communication between you and your partner. You’ll need to pay close attention to his sounds, body movements, and other indicators to know when he’s about to come.

The closer you can bring him to that sweet spot, the better the outcome will be. Wait until a few seconds before the ‘point of no return.’

Then switch gears. Play with his balls, play with yourself, use your hands, change your rhythm, pull your mouth from his penis and tell him how sexy he is. It doesn’t matter.

The point is to push him to the limit then switch it up on him. Keep doing this until you’re ready to give in.

5. Liberate his erogenous zones

Unforgettable blowjobs aren’t only about the penis. There are several erogenous zones you can play with. If you can master the art of blowing him while stimulating these zones, you’ll knock his socks right off his feet.

These five top spots will get him going faster than a cheetah on speed.

The gluteal fold is the spot where the thigh meets the butt. It’s an erogenous zone often overlooked. Kissing, licking, pressing, or tickling this spot can drive him wild by surprise.

The scrotum is the sac that holds the balls. It has several nerve endings that make it sensitive to touch. Sucking, licking, tugging, and massaging can bring pleasure to the scrotal sack.

The scrotal raphe, the line running down the middle, can be especially pleasurable.

The perineum is the spot between the anus and scrotal sack. It’s full of perineal nerves, which sends pleasure sensations from the perineum to the genitals. Gentle pressing, rubbing (with lube), or tickling are great ways to engage the perineum.

The sacrum is the triangular small of the back. It’s another overlooked erogenous zone. The sacral nerves are connected to the genitals and carry pleasure sensations from the sacrum to the penis.

You may have to press a little harder than you would other body parts to stimulate these nerves.

6. Communicate

Giving an amazing blowjob requires a feedback loop between you and your partner. You should both be comfortable using verbal indicators if something isn’t going well.
Or, if something is going really well.

Ideally, he can say ‘more of that’ when he loves what you’re doing, but we live in a world where some people don’t work that way.

If he doesn’t use words or sounds, pay attention to non-verbal cues. Body signals, changes in breathing, hand gestures, and the like.

If you want to try teeth grazing, you better pay attention to whether your man starts tensing up or holding his breath.

Eye contact goes a long way, too. Look at him right as you slip his penis into your gaping mouth. It’s an image he’ll keep locked in the safe deposit box of his spank bank.

If things aren’t going well, don’t be afraid to check in or ask what he likes. Homeboy has been playing with his piece for most of his life. He has a pretty good idea of where you can start.

This is especially useful if you’re new to his penis. You’ll learn what you want to know, build trust, show your enthusiasm, and help him feel powerful.

7. Get handsy
Giving a great blowjob isn’t just about shoving a beef bullet in your mouth and going at it. You should have another tool at your side to make the experience a pleasurable one – your hand.

Starting out with a light handjob is a great way to warm things up. There’s nothing more awkward than trying to stick a floppy penis in your mouth. Rub some flavoured lube on your hands for an added pop of zest.

Once you get going, you can still use those palms to keep things interesting. If you don’t want to deep throat the beast, use your hands to cover the base of the penis.

Your tongue shows love to the most important part (the frenulum) while your hand strokes the shaft.

You can mix it up by using a mouth+hand combination to rhythmically stroke in and out. Then, back to the head and shaft separate roles.

You can use your hands to play with other sensitive spots. Tug at the balls, tickle the inner thigh, or flick his nipples.
If you don’t want to play with his body parts, you can play with your own.

Flick your bean or play with your breasts. He’ll love it. You can also grab his hand with your own and lead him to your pleasure points.

Your hands will come in, well, handy, if you need a quick break. The truth is, blowjobs are tough on the jaw. If you need a second to adjust, your hand lets you do that without breaking the rhythm.

And if you’re not a fan of semen, you always have the option of finishing him off with a sensual handjob.

8. Mix it up
There’s one surefire way to give your partner the worst blowjob of his life. Use one boring method. In and out, in and out, in and out.

Waiting for him to cum so you can go home and study for your exam. It’s the blowjob equivalent of the jackhammer method. Please, do us all a favour and put some spice into your knob job.

Even if you keep it simple, you have several tools at your disposal. Your lips, tongue, and teeth (if he’s into that).

Your breath, thrum, words, breasts, hands, fingers, and sometimes feet.

With all those built-in instruments, you can mix techniques until your partner’s brain explodes. Don’t focus only on the penis.

Play with his other erogenous zones to keep him on his toes. If you’re a skilled multi-tasker, you can mix two techniques at once.

Start easy; tug the balls while licking the head of his dick. Then kick it up a notch, or two, or three.

There are also practical reasons to mix it up. You’ll need to take breaks. Breathing through your nose can get uncomfortable after a while. And, unless you can unhinge your jaw on contact, you’ll want to mitigate the discomfort.
Taking the penis out of your mouth isn’t a big deal as long as you have a plan of action.

9. Finish with a bang
After all that teasing, you want his climax to be unforgettable. Before he orgasms, kick it up a notch or two.
Combine two techniques, speed up your rhythm, or do something that you know drives him wild. Right before climax, give his balls a gentle tug.

When he does orgasm, keep going but slow your rhythm and loosen your grip. His nerves will become sensitive and won’t be able to handle much after about 90–120 seconds.

Keep going a second or two longer than you think is comfortable, then stop.

If you want to swallow the cum, great. Keep sucking and licking while the cum shoots toward the back of your throat. Even after he’s done, lick the head of his penis very lightly a few more times, while you look up at him and smile.

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Don’t feel pressured to swallow. Most men are happy to cum wherever they can. If you don’t want to swallow, you have a few options.
You can pull his penis from your mouth and let the cum flow over your hand. Look up at him, smiling like a sexy vixen.

You can let him cum on your chest, stomach, butt, or another beautiful asset, as you give him your most seductive face.
Or, you can let him cum in your mouth. If you choose this route, you can let it slowly pass through your parted lips, or discreetly spit it out.

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