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If you follow Constance Hall on social media, you’ll know the parent isn’t one to hold back.
The mum-of-five and self-proclaimed ‘queen’ frequently shares intimate details of her family life, as well as her sex life.
Her 425,000 Instagram followers love it and were very impressed with the latest tidbit the blogger posted about.
Earlier this week, the 36-year-old revealed that she’d been sent a message by a woman who was afraid of being perceived as a ‘sl*t’.
This prompted Hall to admit she’d previously been shamed by someone for the number of men she’d slept with over the years.
She explained how an ex had once “threatened” to tell everyone how many sexual partners she’d had.
But instead of being bothered by this threat, she totally owned it, writing: “Nothing freaks out the patriarchy quite like a sexually liberated woman.
“I once had a partner threaten to tell all of our friends that I had slept with over 40 men.
I couldn’t believe he would defame me like that…
“Pretty sure my last count was over 50 men.”
Queen in a message.
“Anyway I don’t even know why I’m messaging, I don’t expect a reply.
Probably because I wanted to tell someone and get it off my chest.
Someone that won’t just think I’m a slut”
Me,
“I don’t think your a slut because Sluts don’t exist.
They were invented to control women like the boogie man was invented to control kids.
A player? Maybe. But hey.. don’t hate the player hate the game. ??”
Nothing freaks out the patriarchy quite like a sexually liberated woman.
I once had a partner threaten to tell all of our friends that I had slept with over 40 men.
I couldn’t believe he would defame me like that….
Pretty sure my last count was over 50 men. ??
You don’t have to tell anyone your numbers if you do
As well as this, the mum also reassured the woman that it doesn’t matter how many people you have sex with as “sl*ts don’t exist”.
“I don’t think you’re a sl*t because sl*ts don’t exist,” she said.
“They were invented to control women like the boogie man was invented to control kids.
“A player? Maybe. But hey.. don’t hate the player hate the game.”Hall added: “You don’t have to tell anyone your numbers.”Her post garnered a lot of attention, with people praising her for sharing.
One person replied: “This is why I follow you because you take queens and build them up every time!!! Why should we be so ashamed of our lives?!”
Another commented: “I always tell the ones who try to ‘shame’ me that I’ve slept with more women than them too.”
Someone else wrote: “I love this so much! I remember my now husband asking me my number and his shock when he found out. He almost broke up with me over it!
“People asked me why I didn’t lie about it back then and my response was why should I? Felt so upset that he thought I was a sl*t!! Not that he used that word, but his shock was quite obvious, and years later he told me his real thoughts. His number was only 4 and mine was 23.
“Anyway he stayed with me because of the amazing sex that came from all that practice lol I think people think if you’ve slept with lots of people you won’t be faithful, and I can tell you how untrue that is! I have never cheated my whole life. Nearly 18 yrs married!”
