In most case scenarios, it has been observed that most young ladies who are “engaged” to be married off to some “already made” dude turn out to be the most flirtatious and worst set of persons on campus.
Because these girls have the grand knowledge that it is only a matter of time before they move into their husband’s house, the rate at which they hang out, keep male “course mates and friends”, raise not a few eyebrow.In most cases, the “would-be” husbands to these girls rent an off campus lodge for them in a bid to give them privacy and visit occasionally. Well, just so you know, some of these girls turn the place into a chalet of some sorts where they can have some “side dude” to keep them company all in the name of reading up.
And if you think you can keep them in check by monitoring them through constant impromptu phone calls and setting up a friend to spy on them, chances are that you, alongside your spy will be beaten to your game that you will vouch no man has seen your fiancée’s thighs, how much more unhooking her bra.
Other cases include the young ladies who got married before their entrance into the university or during their second year(mostly third year).
How will you know if these beautiful young ladies are married when most of them keep their wedding rings at home or the inner sections of their purse, dress up like most young ladies do and even give you that listening ear when you make advances at them?
The only time they get to present it is when they wish to present to a lecturer who is making advances at them on their marital status.
For the married ones who have built this “trust” with their spouse in some far away states of the federation, the activities with college boys is most times to keep body and soul together, and have that feeling of the days when they were single and ready to mingle.
Some others can’t just get over the fact they are now another man’s property-body and mind included.
In the end, it just becomes a win- win game for these ladies because they leave school and let go these “adventurous” college boys, only to return to the hands of the “loving husbands” and the chapter of the past deeds closed up and locked in the deepest archives of their mind.
Mind you, am not saying there are no virtuous engaged and married ladies on campus these days. They exist. But my line of thought comes from the path that the dirty mechanic and his overall have made it quite herculean to decipher the lunatics parading the streets.
So for the men who are quite impatient to see this ladies graduate before they slip the ring into their fingers, the suggestion is to allow them come to their final year or even become graduates.
That way, they (the women) must have seen it all, experienced it all and swam out victorious.
But if you feel there is trust, effective communication and love, just bear in mind that in the world of women, impossible is nothing and they can spring up disturbing surprises.